Scorpio men are not like other men. They have a very deep, complex internal world with lots of emotional ups and downs, and they possess a massive amount of intensity. A Scorpio man wants someone who is different, someone who is out of this world. He wants someone that he can connect with in a way that is entirely unexplainable and unfathomable. The only way to get a Scorpio man to want to fall in love with you and commit to you is to offer him this. You need to provide him with something different, something entirely different from what he has already seen and what he's already been exposed to. You need to offer him that out-of-this-world connection that he so dearly seeks because if you don't, then chances are a Scorpio man will never fall in love with you.
1. A Scorpio man loves an ambitious person
Someone who knows what they want to accomplish and is not just basically living life every day for no reason or purpose. a Scorpio man wants to be with a person who has a very big goal in mind. a Scorpio man wants to be with someone who's passionate and wants to accomplish something and achieve something. If you're just going to wake up every day and watch tv and not actually work towards something big and something great in your life, then he's going to lose interest very quickly. So show a Scorpio man that you have ambition, passion, and wish to accomplish something in your life.
2. Respect his privacy
Scorpio men are very private people, and they're very secretive as well. It takes a Scorpio man a very long time to open up to you. If he feels comfortable with you, he will eventually open up to you; however, it takes him some time. You can't push him and force him to open up to you, and this will likely make him run for the hills. So don't go stalking every move that he makes. Don't go and investigate the people that he hangs out with. Don't do things behind his back to find out more about him. Be completely honest with him. A Scorpio man will know if you've been sneaking around and if you have not been respecting his privacy, and this is something that will put him off very quickly. Don't try and analyze and define him. A Scorpio man is incredibly secretive, and chances are you do not know why he does the way he does things or what makes him tick. Trying to sum him up and trying to analyze him and trying to tell him, look this is who you are, this is what you are and this is what you do and why you do it isn't going to go down well. There are likely a lot of under the surface things going on that you are not aware of at all. Making assumptions is not a good idea because there's still a lot you need to find out about him.
3. Make sure that you are mysterious
Scorpio men love a good old mystery. If you're going to be a person who he can sum up instantly and he can figure out everything about you, what makes you tick, and what you're all about, he's going to get bored very quickly. a Scorpio man loves a person with an endless amount of depth to them. Shallow people who just do not have much going on inside them are not the kind of people Scorpio likes. Scorpios like deep people that are profound, and they have this crazy mysterious inner world going on. If you're going to show the world everything you are, then a Scorpio man's not going to be interested in you. A Scorpio man prefers a private partner, someone who doesn't display everything they are to everyone. Suppose you're going to be sharing every single thing that happens in your life on social media, or you're going to be sharing extra revealing pictures that leaves nothing for the imagination. In that case, a Scorpio man is just going to get over you very quickly because there's no sense of mystery anymore. Everyone's able to figure out everything about you, and they know everything about you. a Scorpio man doesn't want to be with the person who everyone else knows everything about them. He wants to be with a person who is an entire mystery to everyone.
4. Be sexy
Scorpio men, just like their fellow sign Libra, are naturally attracted to beauty. A Scorpio man knows that your external appearance and your external form reflect your internal form. If you are naturally beautiful on the outside and you're naturally sexy on the outside, then he will be attracted to you. However, if you're not, then chances are he's just not going to feel it with you. A Scorpio man needs to feel some sense of physical or sexual attraction to the person they want to be with. Now the thing is there's a very fine line. Scorpio men don't like women who put too much effort in, and they go too far to be sexy. If you're going to be too pushy when it comes to this, it's going to put him off as well. You need to find a very fine balance between being natural and being sexy. If you're going to be too natural and you're not going to pay any attention to your appearance, that's going to not go down well with him. However, if you are going to be too sexy and pay too much attention to your appearance, that's not going to go down well with him either. With the Scorpio man it is all about finding that balance.
5. Be confident
Pluto and Mars rule Scorpio, and this represents all the power that they hold within them. Scorpios are attracted to powerful, confident partners. If you're a rather weak person who does not know how to deal with your negative emotions or your negative side, and you are quite codependent and reliant on other people to help you get through difficult things, then a Scorpio is most likely not going to be attracted to you. Scorpio men are attracted to people who exude a sense of inner power. They're attracted to people who are independent, confident and filled with inner strength in a sense where they can deal with anything that they're faced with in life alone without having to be dependent on someone or having someone hold their hand. There is nothing more off-putting to a Scorpio man than a demanding codependent needy partner. A Scorpio man wants a partner that can stand on their own two feet, and that can be strong on their own. This is because Scorpio men themselves possess such high amounts of inner strength and inner power they need a partner who can match this level of inner strength and inner power. A weaker partner than what they are will bring them down, making them weaker, and that's not what a Scorpio is about. Scorpio is about power. It's about inner strength and finding that power. Scorpio does not want to involve themselves with anyone who will make them feel like they're not in control of themselves and their lives and that they are weaker.
6. Make sure that you're always honest with him
Scorpio men can sense dishonesty, and they can sense a lie a mile away. they can likely sense that you're about to lie to them before you even lie to them. So Scorpio men have superpowers in a sense and what I mean by that is a Scorpio man can pick up on your body language, and they're able to pick up on subtle little signals that you send that will instantly tell them that you're dishonest and that you are lying. Scorpio women also have this ability, as well as a lot of people with Scorpio aspects. So you might think that you are hiding the truth and that you're good at doing this, but I'm telling you a Scorpio man is going to figure you out. He's going to figure your lie out very, very fast. It is basically over as soon as a Scorpio man has found out that you have lied to him. He will not forgive you. Scorpio men do not give second chances when somebody has crossed them or when somebody has lied to them because it takes a lot for them to trust a person. It takes a lot for them to give their hearts and give their all to someone and when someone damages that, they will not go back. They will not give their all to that person again. They'll rather just move on and find someone else who they can trust. With Scorpio men, it's very important never to cross them because if you ever lie to them or you're ever dishonest to them, it is over. They will not ever forgive you. There is no way in hell that you will be forgiven.
7. Do not be bossy and pushy with him
Scorpio men like confident, powerful, and capable, and independent partners, but they do not like overly demanding partners. Suppose you're going to think that you're more powerful and more important than him in the relationship, and you're going to shunt him around and boss him around. In that case, he is going to end the relationship very, very quickly. A Scorpio man does not like a bossy partner. A Scorpio man prefers a partner who has the capability and power to do it themselves instead of asking other people to do it for them. Don't be bossy. Rather show him that you have the power to do it yourself, which will impress him. Scorpio men are incredibly attracted to a gentle, loving, kind nature. The whole cold-hearted approach to life does not go well with them. They're attracted to people who care about other people, and their capacity for care and love shines through them. a Scorpio man will always choose a partner who has a very good heart and a very big capacity for love and empathy. Suppose you are a selfish person who only cares about yourself and no one else. In that case, there is no way a Scorpio man will ever be attracted to you. A Scorpio man is attracted to beauty, purity, and innocence.
8. Allow a Scorpio man to protect you
Scorpio men are incredibly protective, and a lot of people think that they are jealous and possessive; however, this is not necessarily the case. Scorpio men fear losing that which means the world to them. If you're going to get upset when he's trying to protect you and when he maybe seems a little bit jealous, then it's not going to go down very well with him because he wants to feel secure in the relationship. If you're going to show him that there is a reason for him to feel jealous and if you're not going to allow him to protect you and you're going to get angry at him, he will feel disappointed. A Scorpio man wants to be with a partner who will make them feel safe and secure by allowing them to have some level of control over the relationship or their partner. If you are involved with the Scorpio man but end up hanging out with many other men every day, your Scorpio man will feel very, very insecure, and he's likely not going to want to be in a long-term relationship with you. Scorpio men will allow you to have other friends and other male friends but within an acceptable degree. If the dynamic in your life is that you are too intimate or too close to certain people in your life, your Scorpio man can feel threatened by this, and he will try and control you. He will try and protect you from the influence of these people. The only reason he does this is that he doesn't want to lose you.